Wow! Thanks for all your support..I just ended up giving her a paypal refund.. I do believe she has done this before...and Karma will catch up with her. I really believe in Karma. What comes around goes around. I have learned a lesson too and if this ever happens again, I will be alot more firm and I guess I do need to create a better refund policy, I just really haven't had and real issues until this *%$#@ buyer.
Thanks to all who took the time to help me