edit// and this is why rick is a premier poster and i am just a measly apprentice!
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THANK YOU, RICKSTER!!!! you always have the answer, how do you DO that?!! that was it, it's all fixed (tho 16 peop. were looking just since last nite, so i guess mattroy was right about my underestimation of my bidders! ) i bet you're the guy who'll always drive someone to the airport or help them move, aren't you?
i feel sooooo much better! thanks to both you guys for your replies!