santacruzgals, ebay can't do that to you. The problem you have is take it or get a lawyer. It ain't worth the hassel. Check out the two latest articles here to learn where we former ebayers have taken our business. The more of us that leave ebay in the dust, the better for everyone.
Over at www.etsy.com, they love to buy used clothing.
Otherwise, if you want to take the time, you could file a formal complaint against ebay with the IRS and claim business interference, which they can't do if they are ONLY A VENUE.
Stay there and it's just going to get worse. For your sake, get the heck out of there and see where the rest of us are going. Stop paying ebay to lie to you, railroad you and rob you.
Ebay thinks they are God and they can make whatever rules they dream up. BS!!!
Get out now. You'll be helping all of us. The sooner ebay crashes and burns, the better for all of us who have moved on to better sites.