Don't worry, if you see your listings in "My eBay" than it should be alright. It takes a while for eBay to refresh their search index, sometimes hours. I had the same questions and when I contacted eBay help they referred me to this: http://pages.ebay.com.au/help/find/questions/wheres-my-item.html
It's not of great help but my listings did show up later.
Cheers,
Cat