YIKES!!!
that sounds soooooooo bogus... first of all, if she wants to wire them money, let her do it herself!!!(himself, whatever...) is your ebay auction business to help people transfer funds? i doubt it. if she wants to buy something you're selling, that would be one thing.. and i would REALLY make sure you have received money from her before sending ANYthing, cuz viz other threads i've seen, people can make it LOOK like they've paid your paypal acct. when they haven't. and if that email's cut/pasted, whoever wrote it, IF they DO live in the usa, probably wasn't born here, the phrasing sounds awkward. i personally would forward the email to spoof@ebay.com just to be sure, and if it is an actual email, i would prob. say, too bad, so sad, i don't do international.
and there's my 2 cents, hope it helps!! but whatever you decide, BE CAREFUL!!
edit//// and also, she says she doesn't want them to know it's from her... ever?? she doesn't want them to find out when they get it? even weirder...