this is what I see under 'Preferences'----if it's somewhere in here, please let me know!!!
Notification Preferences
Notification Delivery
Buying Notifications
Other Transactions and Notifications
Newsletters, Promotions & Event Notifications
Legal and Policy Notifications
Member-to-Member Communication Preferences
Skype Preferences
General Preferences
Searching and buying
My eBay
Reviews & Guides
Advertising Preferences
Third-Party Authorizations
Other general preferences
Thank you guys!!!!