bwdyk, thanks yea I saw the active x wanting to install and I let it install. After the first time that the uploader ran after the active x installed was when I had a problem with clicking on the add photo button and the photo selector opening and automatically closing. I restarted IE 8 and went back into the same saved listing and I was able to select the images that I had uploaded. If it works on several more listings then I will post back that IE may need to be restarted.
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NO YOUR BROWSER SHOULD NOT HAVE THE SECURITY SET SO LOW THAT ACTIVE X COMPONENTS INSTALL AUTOMATICALLY WITH OUT YOUR ACCEPTING THE INSTALLATION! DAH